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Toilet for Babli – We can bring a Change

by Tina Basu November 17, 2014
written by Tina Basu
The long queue of people waiting at the village health care center made her sick. She had to travel 50 KMs to get to this distant government health care center. People flocked with their ailing children. Filthy dirt, unhygienic instruments – that was the sorry state of almost all village health centers in this part of the country. Prema sat on the floor with her 7 year old Babli waiting for the doctor. Little Babli has been sick for past few days – neither her fever was improving nor the bouts of vomiting.

“What has happened to your daughter?”

“Vomiting, fever,” answered a nervous Prema.

“Jaundice” said the health practitioner looking at Babli’s eyes closely.

“Was she eating with dirty hands?”

“No doctor sahiba”

“Is she going to a proper toilet? Where does she go for toilet?”

“In the fields,” replied her mother.

“That is where the problem is. If you send your child to defecate in open fields, this is bound to happen. Please understand it is very unhygienic, today she has caught this jaundice, tomorrow something else might happen”

“But then… doctor sahiba that is what everyone does in our village”

Dr. Reshma was left shocked to hear this. The more she got to know about these distant villages the sorrier she felt for these villagers. This was her first assignment in rural India and the sorry state of health and hygiene made her feel sick.

“Prema it is very important that Babli goes to a proper toilet and not some field for defecation. Why only Babli, everyone should go to a hygienic toilet, else they could catch a disease tomorrow. She is seven years old, in a few years she will be a young girl, and it isn’t safe for her to go to the fields alone in the morning to defecate”

Dr. Reshma gave little Babli her medicines, but she was more worried about the scores of other children in the village.

“Will you help me Prema?” Dr. Reshma called out as Prema was getting up to leave.

“ji?”

“Prema I want to come to your village and speak to the Pradhan and everyone if possible.”

“Madam, next Monday is our Panchayat Day, every one comes there on Panchayat Day.”

Dr. Reshma made up her mind to visit the village Panchayat. Awareness about the hazards of open defecation was the only way they would understand the risks.

For next few days Dr. Reshma made some charts and flip books with pictures to demonstrate the health risks of open defecation. She was hoping the villagers would understand her.

Dr. Reshma wasn’t expecting such a warm welcome in the village today and she was surprised with the turn out. She learnt she was the first doctor to visit this village. They didn’t have a primary health center and every one had to travel 50 KMs to the other village for a doctor. Dr. Reshma felt bad for them.

“Dear friends how many of your children have been suffering from worms? “

Almost every other woman had raised their hands up.

“How many of your children are suffering from diarrhoea?”

The response was similar.

“Friends, where do you fetch your drinking water from?”

‘Village well, pond, stream’, came out various answers, as expected.

“Do you know why so many children are getting increasingly down with diarehoea and jaundice? It is because for a basic problem in hygiene practice. Defecating in open fields and not using proper methods for cleanliness increases your chances of exposure to harmful bacteria and virus, which results in these dangerous diseases”, she said showing them the charts.

“Defecating in open is not only unhealthy and unhygienic but also has a deep psychological impact as the children go up. There is no privacy”continued Dr. Reshma raising her voice over the murmurs from the gathered crowd.”

“Pradhanji, I request you to create some proper toilets in the village so that no more children suffer because of these unhygienic practices.”

“Madam, we are poor people, we don’t have so much money” said the village Pradhan.

“There are some governmental and non-governmental organizations who can help you in this initiative. You can make some community toilets which everyone in the village can use” she said.

“I can bring to you such people who can help you in building toilets. Clean and hygienic toilet is the right of every person. But I need your help, I need your co-operation, you need to build the toilets for yourself for your healthy future. Are you with me?” Asked Dr. Reshma.

The loud response from the villagers made her happy. That day Dr. Reshma left the village with a promise, a promise to help them build clean toilets.

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This post of mine is written in response of the #ToiletFoBabli initiative by Domex through their Domex Toilet Academy. I think it is a very nice and important initiative that Domex and HUL have taken up.  With every click in their page Domex will contribute Rs. 5 towards making villages open defecation free. Isn’t that amazing people? 



You can bring about the change in the lives of millions of kids, thereby showing your support for the Domex Initiative. All you need to do is “click” on the “Contribute Tab” on www.domex.in and Domex will contribute Rs.5 on your behalf to eradicate open defecation, thereby helping kids like Babli live a dignified life.

This post has been written as a part of Indi-Happy hours  on Indiblooger in association with Domex 

November 17, 2014 0 comments
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The Amazing Childhood Days

by Tina Basu November 16, 2014
written by Tina Basu

“Finish your milk Reya… it’s going to be 10” called out her mother.


Little Reya realized the urgency in her mother’s voice and ran around the room, just for fun.
She liked it when her mother chased her with the glass of milk and Parle G biscuits, it happened everyday and she had her share of fun with her mom.

“Reya, don’t run… mommy will scold now, finish it or we’ll get late”.

Sundays were special, everyone was at home and at 10 everyone flocked near the television.

Reya finished her milk in one gulp before settling down in the living room in front of the television with the entire family and the house helps. Sunday morning when Mahabharat was aired on Dooradarshan, every single person was there in front of the television without fail. Reya looked at her grandmother sitting with folded hands.

She quickly sharpened her Nataraj dark pencil to write down the ‘shloka’ she had picked up from watching several episodes of Mahabharat – ‘Yada Yada hi Dharmasya, Glanir Bhavati Bharata, Abhyuthanam Adharmaysya, Tadatmanam Srijami Aham’.

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Today it was no different, little Rohan was fussing over his morning milk and he was busy with his PSP, while Reya was watching the latest Mahabharat episode on Star Plus HD. It didn’t have the old charm, she felt.  Reya smiled when she remembered her childhood days.


This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.
Three words Prompts were – Parle G biscuits, Doordarshan, Nataraj dark pencil.

November 16, 2014 2 comments
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Book Review: Playing it My Way by Sachin Tendulkar & Boria Mazumdar

by Tina Basu November 15, 2014
written by Tina Basu

Our Master Blaster has an inborn talent and habit of creating records in whatever he does – be it the number of centuries, number of test matches, number or runs or even breaking all pre-order records with his autobiography. Now those who know me, from childhood or even now, you know how big a worshiper I am of Mr. Sachin Tendulkar. 

All I have for him is love, affection, adulation and respect of the highest order. So when he announced on his FB page that his autobiography will be launched on 6thNovember 2014 I had pre-ordered it so that I get on the day of the launch. And I finished it off in a day and a half. But see how lazy and sloth like I am that I am writing the review today almost a week after I read, in fact it was launched last Thursday if I am not wrong. Anyways let’s get to the point. 


What I was expecting from the book Playing It My Way was the Sachin Tendulkar story, the behind the scene tales, and loads of humility – just how he is. You know his life actually has been an open book. He has been in the media right from his school days, his Harris Shield Days, his Ranji Days, so you might think what do I read more about him? But hold it guys – it’s the most straight forward and simple story of the KID WHO WENT ON TO BECOME GOD. – This is not in the book, but that is the reality.

Playing it My Way starts off with his childhood, his early days, his naughtiness. When people were busy watching movies little Sachin would be busy on tree tops plucking mangoes with friends or locking people out in their homes. Well I don’t quite know how he used to escape a good earful after these. He mentions as a child he was scared of his eldest brother Nitin. Whenever he would not listen to his mother it was Nitin’s duty to get him back home from some mischief. Not always has he been this obedient righteous man that we know of him today. As a child he pestered his dad to get a brand new bicycle because he wanted to show off to his colony friends. And while showing off first day he met with an accident and had to visit a plastic surgeon to get stitches above his eyes! I have read this one anecdote long time back in some book, I don’t remember which book – while coming back home from school he spotted a frog at some water logged road. He wanted to take that frog home so trapped it in his lunch box and conveniently forgot about it after sometime. Now you can guess what must have happened when his mom went on to clean his lunch box!! Yes that is definitely being the king of naughtiness. That his brother Ajit took him to Ramakant Achrekar’s cricket coaching camp is legendary, but many might not know that it was done to keep him away from any other mischief.
The book also gives away a side of Sachin that he had kept private for long. Neither the media or anyone else could dig out much about his love story with Anjali, one great woman whom I admire and respect. It was Anjali who ‘chased’ (that’s how she described it) him at the Mumbai Airport making him blush. But yes Anjali has been ‘the best partnership’ for him and I want this partnership to go on and on. 

The Best Couple
But the portions of the book that amazes you is how he became the great player he is, travelling and playing across England in county cricket. Such was his passion for the game that he drove extensively in a day to play a match and drive back again right after a match to get back in his county match! Resulting in taking 10 second naps on the field!

As you go along you realize he is nothing less than a soldier. Injuries, surgeries, rehabs, practices its all part and parcel of the game. His tennis elbow surgery was a pretty famous and talked about episode and we all know he underwent a surgery for that. But I never knew he had to undergo two groin surgeries, surgeries for fingers, toes and what not. All for keeping his body fit for serving the country at the highest level. And our hero has a habit of waking up from anesthesia too!! It comes across twice that he had woken up during surgeries from anesthesia only to enquire if they are doing it properly and he’ll be able to hold a bat!

Some anecdotes that you just cannot miss in Playing It My Way

     1.  Arjun, his son, doesn’t like people criticizing his dad. Just after the debacle of 2007 World Cup Sachin asked him not to rise to criticism but all the wise words left Arjun when someone blamed him for India’s poor performance. Guess what Arjun punched that fellow. Well I need to tell you Arjun, if I was there in your place I would have done the same if not worse. I have done it for long whenever people teased me with Tendulkar getting out on a low score.
   2. Like Arjun Sachin also had a similar situation when he was a kid. Some girl had commented on how his mother looked. It didn’t go down too well with little Sachin and he didn’t think twice before punching her. Like Father, like son.
    3. Sachin Tendulkar had an issue of sleep walking when young and it seems Sourav Ganguly was at the receiving end at the under 15 camp in Indore. Sourav claims he couldn’t sleep with him walking around the room in darkness! I don’t blame you Sourav
     4.Indian players miss home cooked food the most when they are away on long tours. There have been times when they have asked Indians living in those countries to get them some home cooked food. Or not getting any food during Christmas & New Years day in New Zealand when every restaurant closed down!  Ohh poor fellows
     5. Sachin Tendulkar can be in that TV show – Man vs Food. He actually has an award for conquering Harry’s Challenge of the famous Harry Ramsden’s café in Guisely, West Yorkshire. He polished off a giant portion of fish, salads and sides!!! Some appetite you have Master.
     6. As a kid Arjun refused to speak to his dad over phone whenever he was touring. He used to be so upset that he never took his call. And when he was back home Arju would cling on to him for 3 days straight! That’s so god damn cute. I totally love his wife and kids.
   7. How he videotaped his first sight of his daughter Sara in the hospital, and how he requested doctors to let him stay in Anjali’s room in the hospital that night. He didn’t mind sleeping on the mattress on floor. He just didn’t want to leave his wife and newly born alone. Yeah he definitely is the Mortal God.
Now I can go on writing about these little stuffs that makes this book such a joy to read. But I must tell you by the time you are nearing the last chapters you might get very emotional – just like how you would have been during his farewell speech. I literally had tears in my eyes remembering his speech and the extravaganza surrounding his farewell test. It was sad and at the same time those tears were of pride. Yes I have been following him worshiping him as a kid and he will always be my all time hero. The journey tells you what makes him so humble – the life’s lessons he learnt  – they are inspiring.

There’s a chapter named Endulkar – where he describes how he was feeling when the media was after him stating he is failing, he is not performing etc etc. But Sir, Legends never retire and Gods never cease to exist!!!    
Overall it was the Sachin experience that I was looking forward to – the Sachin story from the horse’s mouth. Playing it My Way will have a special place in my book case just like how I have special places for Sachin’s gloves & signature mini bat. These are my collectibles of Sachin, the God. In fact, that mini bat has signatures of the entire Indian Team. It was taken long time back though!

My Rating: Any guesses??? A big whole 5/5.
 

Will always cherish my copy of The God’s Book

BOOK DETAILS
Publisher Hodder & Stoughton
ISBN-10 1473605202
Imprint Hodder & Stoughton
Number of Pages 496 Pages
Publication Year 2014
Language English
ISBN-13 9781473605206
Binding Hardcover
Author  Sachin Tendulkar & Boria Majumdar

Price: 800 INR

November 15, 2014 0 comments
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Five Sentence Fiction – Brave Girl

by Tina Basu November 14, 2014
written by Tina Basu

I checked the social tab of Gmail after ages now and saw my Five Sentence Fiction prompt waiting for me. I have not written a tiny flash fiction in a long time now – last was in September to be precise. That’s so bad of me. I ventured into short stories for some time. But I think we should have a variety in life. What say?



Brave Girl
The mother was rushing back home, with fear splashed across her eyes.

What will be my little one doing… I shouldn’t have left her alone, she thought.

The threat that loomed in the air made her sick thinking about her baby… she prayed to be home in time.
Near home the spectacle before her eyes left her speechless… it made her proud and she was finally relieved.

Her baby had taken her first flight alone… leaving the bald eagle behind… the mother hurried to get rid of the eagle…  










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This post is for Lillie McFerrin Writes Five Sentence Fiction for the prompt FLIGHT. 
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November 14, 2014 8 comments
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Rohit Sharma – The Hitman

by Tina Basu November 14, 2014
written by Tina Basu

I just realized it is like 20 days that I have not blogged!!! I was getting too worked up blogging everyday for 3 months and now I am restless that I have not blogged for so long. Fingers are itching to type away. I wanted to do so many posts in the last week but somehow my laziness gets the better of me! But today there will be a marathon of posts.

Marathon reminds me of the carnage one man did yesterday in Kolkata. I was in a day-long meeting yesterday and wasn’t checking tweets, news or anything. Only in the evening I realized I was not part of a history that was created in Eden Gardens by Rohit Sharma. I mean what did he eat yesterday? 264???? Are you like kidding me? It freaked me out when I saw my twitter timeline. Now I have reduced watching cricket if not already stopped ever since our god Sachin Tendulkar retired. But last night I went back home, saw the highlights, and even the after match analysis by Gautam Bhimani and was so elated with the fact that someone did this actually!!!

Yeah really – He was the Hitman yesterday


I still don’t believe it 264!!! In an ODI!!!! This streak of 200 in ODI was first introduced by our very own Master Blaster and then it has been like a habit of Indian batsmen to score 200+ in ODI. Sehwag did it, Rohit himself did it – but this one is like the Everest!! 33 boundaries!! And I am so happy that all 4 double centuries in ODI are by Indians!! That patriotic feel you get after a cricket match!

There are hilarious memes and jokes doing he rounds across the internet on this carnage and I was reading them when I thought of sharing some trivia and jokes here.

Did you this 200s by Indian batsmen is the mother of coincident. Check this out.

Credit : facebook.com/thebackbenchersofficial

Hilarious memes on FB.  
By Ankit Siyal Jain

by Arjun T Mohan

Sometimes its real fun to go through the memes.
Okay now a puzzle. I was given this puzzle last evening and i answered correctly. Now it’s your turn to give me the answer. 
How many runs can a single batsman make in an ODI (50 overs / 300 balls) ??? No extra runs, no wide, no no balls, no over throws, 

Well if its Rohit Sharma he can achieve it actually. 


  

   


November 14, 2014 1 comment
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Now You can Get a better Car with Quikr NXT!

by Tina Basu October 22, 2014
written by Tina Basu
Change is inevitable – isn’t it? Or is Change the only constant? It’s kind of an ‘in-thing’ for our generation to change their stuffs quickly. That’s what it is with being impatient. Life span of every commodity has become less today – not because they don’t work after a year but we are getting bored of them too fast! You want to upgrade everything – new TV, new fridge, new microwave, new phone, new car and even new furniture – which until recently people preferred to last for long. Now we are impatient with our buying habits to – we don’t waste our weekends in buying stuffs now we buy in a few clicks.

When you can change something big enough sitting at home in a few clicks why wouldn’t you prefer that? Quikr.comhas become a favorite with Indians for selling off old items and buying something new. And you get pretty nice deals if you have that good eye of a hawk! You don’t have a middleman who will either mark up the price or eat up your due price. You can post free ads and contact a seller.

Quikr NXT is the latest and the more enhanced version of their website. They have the new chat feature where you can simple chat with the seller buyer. I think that’s a very good feature. Now if I have to upgrade my car through Quikr NXT I think it will be a smooth ride for me. I can do a good amount of research on that perfect car just lounging on my recliner. I can select makes, models and even the kilometers it has run! Almost all makes of cars are available Maruti Suzuki, Ford, Toyota, Fiat, Skoda, Hyundai, Honda – you name it and its there. You could choose between a CNG, Petrol, Diesel, LPG according to your wish and also set your budget.

Quikr NXT Car & Bike Search page. 

With all these features short listing the car you want to get is easier. I actually am more interested in the manufacturing year and the kilometers it has run more than anything else. If you want to buy a used car these are the two most important things you should look for. Sometimes you get really good deals when you see a car has run only 6000-7000kms and the owner wants to sell – either they are relocating or are upgrading. Most of the ads that I see on Qukir has the running kilometers mentioned. So you could shortlist only the best available.

Once shortlisted you can call/mail or chat with the seller to strike a deal, inspection and payment related discussions. And if all goes well you can have your next car in your garage in a few days time. Isn’t that hassle free and quick! So sell quicker and buy quicker!

Visit http://www.quikr.com/ to check your preferred deal


This post is written for Indi Happy Hours in association with Quikr NXT


 

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