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Pandal Hopping Mess

by Tina Basu April 19, 2016
written by Tina Basu
Durga Puja is the biggest celebration of the Bengali’s. More than being a festival it’s an emotion and part of our identity for Bengalis. It’s five days of fun, food, pandal hopping, meeting friends, attending cultural programs, new clothes and a lot of fun.

For those readers who are not aware about a ‘Pandal’ – it is the temporary outer structure where the idol is kept and worshiped. It is decorated and lit up in the most beautiful ways. Every locality of the city has their own Pujas and their own Pandals. These days they are crazy for themes.

When we were younger we were crazy about visiting pandals and almost made lists of how many we are going to visit. When you want to visit numerous pandals across the city you have to be geared with map and mark the routes. Since these pandals crop up on roads and streets many roads are blocked for those 5-6 days and traffic is diverted. In short – if you have not visited Kolkata during pujas then you will not understand it!


Now, you already know how prone I am to getting lost. You missed that part, did you? Worry not, read my lost stories.

This one time all of us cousins had planned to visit a few pujas late in the night. Durga Pujas are whole night affairs, in anyways. I was the youngest in the group of 12. That Time I myself was some 10-11 year old. We were led by my eldest cousin brother who was big enough that time. This particular pandal is very famous for their decorations every year and each day of the festival they usually have a footfall of more than a lakh people.

You don’t even need to walk because you’ll be invariably pushed by the crowd. We entered the pandal through the entry way and within minutes we had to walk out along with the crowd in the same flow through the exit. There were two exits one to your left and one to your right. Once you are out and in that flow of the crowd there’s no way you can go in the opposite direction. It’s like a human river.  

Me and three of my cousins came out through the left exit way and stood near one of the stalls waiting for the others to come out. Time flew, thousands of people passed by my other cousins were still not out. We got a little worried. Those were not the days of mobile phones. We realized they must have gone out of the other exit. I made one of my brothers climb up a wall of a nearby house to check if he can see the other group over the sea of crowds! We didn’t spot anyone familiar.

After almost 45 minutes we visited the inquiry box and made an announcement – “Amitava Bose, who has come from Behala, your young brothers and sisters are waiting for you at the inquiry box please contact immediately”. [It sounds hilarious now, but we had to do all this back then.]

I was the only one in the small group of four who stayed in Kolkata. The others stayed in different cities and were visiting Kolkata during the Puajs. Imagine my plight. Even after waiting for a long time we didn’t see or hear anything from the other group. We searched for our car at the parking, the cars were missing too. We thought they must have forgotten about us!

One of our house was nearby and we decided to walk. But waking up someone at 2:30 AM in the night and announcing we are lost wasn’t a great idea. We waited in the garage amidst mosquitoes and light flies hoping this other group will come there looking for us.

But then we had to ring the bell and wake my grand mom up who came down worried with the bell ringing at that deathly hour. Guess what few minutes after ringing the bell we heard the cars honking and the other group barging in!


How I wish we had mobile phones back then!

This is how crowded it gets
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April 19, 2016 3 comments
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Out in the Space

by Tina Basu April 18, 2016
written by Tina Basu
Well no, I have not done a Space tour or visited the ISS. I am not a rollercoaster person at all. I always feel I will fall down and break a leg or smash my head. It’s not that I have a fear of heights but I have a fear of falling down specially from these roller coasters. I was in Disneyland in Paris sometime in 2005 or 2006 and if you have visited a Disneyland you will know it has these wonderful lands – Adventureland, Tomorrowland, Fantasyland and so on.

This Tomorrowland has all sorts of weird rollercoasters. I was being pretty happy with the castles, Tarzan’s tree house, trains and shows. Frankly, one day at the park is too less a time! A friend dragged me to this craziest ride called SPACE MOUNTAIN. I was not too keen on it. But since everyone was rushing towards it I too joined the queue. You cannot see this ride from outside. All you can do is he people screaming their lungs out. This is a complete covered ride. As I got closer to the entry gates I could see the people of the last ride getting down. Few were puking, few were all red (from all that screaming I guess), few were crying and some looked disillusioned! I told my friend – you go ahead I am leaving the queue – there’s no way I’m doing this to myself willingly!


This is that dreadful ride! Source
He still dragged me and made me sit in that god damn ride!

The ascend itself was at a steep angle and we were taken up to some 5th floor height I think. And after that all I remember is I thought my heart was already outside my body, I am neither hanging or sitting, I couldn’t shut my eyes any tighter and the guy beside me was laughing!!!!



He even told me “open your eyes and see the space”

Really

If I could I would have jumped and hung on to a rope or the scaffolding – practically anything and escape that ride.

I did open my eyes for a split second and I guess a meteor whizzed pass me. The commentary in French behind the seat wasn’t helping me either!

This torture (for me) lasted for how long – I have no idea. I even screamed – “I don’t want to die!”

By the time we were down and the ride stopped I was shaking. The attendant and my friend had to hold and support me to get out of that seat. I didn’t howl or swear at everyone around was the saving grace!

I have been to Disneyland Hong Kong after few years and STEERED CLEAR of everything that remotely even looked similar to that Space Mountain.


Did you have a similar experience at a rollercoaster in an amusement park? Believe me I am scared of the oscillating Pirate Ships too! 

Seriously I didn’t even go back to look at my photos. They would have been worse than this!
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April 18, 2016 3 comments
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No Fish Fry

by Tina Basu April 16, 2016
written by Tina Basu
We Bengalis are very sentimental about our fish. We eat fish like every day and if given a choice then in every meal. We have like some cosmic connection with fish. Ask a Bengali to be without having fish for a week he might find it is absolutely okay to murder you!

Here in Bangalore there are apartment complexes where they don’t allow non vegetarians. Imagine a Bengali trying to get a house for rent over there. Back in 2011 when we were looking for a place for rent we skipped all the properties that were listed with – prefer vegetarians.

My in-laws were visiting us one time and we had gone to Coorg for a quick holiday. For us food is a big part of any holiday. We were staying at a resort which was supposedly a good one over there. During one of the dinners my father in-law wanted to order fish fry. The restaurant in the resort didn’t have any fish fry apparently. They served only seer fish (which is a sea fish, and we are river water fish eating people) and that too only for lunch!

This is something that’s almost unacceptable for a Bengali.

“You don’t even have a fish fry?” asked my father in-law.

“No sir, no fish fry”


What worthless restaurant you are, we all thought inside!

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Have you too faced such a situation where you are sentimental about a particular food?



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This post is written for the A to Z Challenge 2016 for Day 14 Letter N. Visit A to Z, BlogChatter to read other beautiful bloggers!
April 16, 2016 12 comments
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Macau or somewhere else?

by Tina Basu April 15, 2016
written by Tina Basu
Looks like all sorts of funny incidents happened in my life while I am travelling. I was going through my own posts this month and I can see most of these are my travel stories! LOL.

We were visiting Macau and Hong Kong sometime in the year 2008. We had to take a ferry to reach Macau from Honk Kong. This is one of a kind ferry though! We were asked by the local guide at Hong Kong to get down at the last stop and a driver would be waiting at the terminal for us with our name.

It’s actually difficult to follow the English that a Chinese origin person speaks. But we did catch the word ‘last stop’.


The ferry was supposed to stop at two terminals. We got down at the second one. It was sometime around 7 or 8 in the evening local time. By that time we had got a message from the driver that he was waiting outside for us. We came out and started searching for the placard with our name. Didn’t see any familiar name. Those days there weren’t Matrix cards (at least we were not carrying any!) My phone was on international roaming. But in the roaming things were also funny that time. I was using a pre-paid connection that time. I could send and receive SMS and ONLY receive calls and couldn’t do outgoing call. Thank god we have better options these days with WIFI available everywhere.

We spent over an hour looking for the driver. If you have visited this Macau you’ll know it’s a city of Casinos and tourists. Just outside the terminalwas the runway of the only airport there. While waiting for the driver we watched planes taxing in the tiny airport.

We sought the help of the tourist police there. He called up the driver and some words with him.

What he told next caught us in surprise.

“Your driver is waiting for you in Macau”

We were a little dumbfounded – where the hell were we if the driver was in Macau!!!

“Is this not Macau?” asked my dad now sounding worried.

Mom was tensed so was I – where the hell did we come?

“This is Taipa!” said the police

Taipa, now where was that?

The police explained Taipa is another island in Macau about 20 minutes away from the terminal where we landed up. This is the place you get down if you are visiting MGM or Venetian. 

He asked us not to worry since he instructed the driver to pick us from our current position.

Thankfully, we didn’t land up in some weird place!


Have you ever been in such a situation? Reached somewhere else by mistake instead of your destination?



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April 15, 2016 8 comments
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Lost

by Tina Basu April 14, 2016
written by Tina Basu
While travelling if you have not got lost and don’t have a lost story to tell, were you even travelling? I have a history of getting lost or getting separated from the group of people, or losing something important, like everywhere. It’s either I am getting lost or my parents or my friends! I thought why not share few glimpses of that today.

Vanished in Venice

We were in Venice, right in front of St. Mark’s Basilica mingling with people and waiting for our turn to enter the cathedral. We had some nice sandwich and cappuccino at a café at the Piazza and were pretty excited to be in Venice in the first place. Just before entering the cathedral I touched my sling bag (this was in 2006 or 2005 – I don’t quite remember – and sling bags were not in fashion, it was a small pouch bag with a long sling like strap) to see if everything was in place. I sometimes get this OCD rush when I am travelling. And guess what happened? The sling was there over my shoulder but the pouch was missing! WTF?? Where the hell was my bag. I was in Italy and that pouch had some Euros and my Passport!!!!


Two things ran through my mind – my parents will probably disown me if I lose the passport and I might be deported back to India that very moment! I was super scared to report this to my parents even. I was what twenty year old that time. I even asked them to go ahead with the Basilica and I’ll join them in a while. But my dad understood something was wrong because I had turned al red! For twenty minutes I searched almost everywhere, from the café to the entrance of the church! It was finally another kind Indian Lady who came searching for me, she had found my purse. She was searching for me to help me out. Madam you saved me that day thank you!

Absent in Acropolis

If you have visited Acropolis or anywhere Athens, Greece you will know it’s just tourist tourist tourist. Everyone wants to click a photo first and then see everything else. I was also young and carefree when I visited and climbed the place up much faster than our friends and my parents. All I wanted was someone to click my photo with the nice backdrop. Then I realized the camera was with my mom. (those were not the days of iPhones and smartphones).

But where the hell was my mom, or my dad? They were tugging behind the last I remembered. But I didn’t see anyone! There were scores of tourists but not the people I was looking for. I went down the underground museum in search of them. They were not there as well. I think for an hour I left everything and kept searching for my parents. The other thought at the back of my mind was – they must be worried about me too, their only daughter was lost, and lost in Greece! This time my passport was not even with me – I started trusting my documents with my dad after my Venice experience. I forgot about the photos and everything else. I even reached the parking lot. I saw our bus parked; I thought maybe I can take the driver’s help to report to the police! And then guess what – my parents were seated inside the bus!!!

They roamed around everywhere, finished the sightseeing and were waiting for me in the bus – supposedly! I still don’t know who was lost – me or them. And I don’t have a single photo of mine at Acropolis!


There are many such incidents that I can write about, but may be later. Tell me when was the last time you got lost in an unknown place?

Seriously. Source



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April 14, 2016 10 comments
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Kumaon Surprise

by Tina Basu April 13, 2016
written by Tina Basu
We were visiting the Jim Corbet national Park in 2002. Having read several books by Jim Corbet I was more than eager to encounter some man-eaters , or even deer eater tigers of the Kumaon. For those of you who are not aware – Kumaon region of Northern India is famous for its tigers and leopards and they were made even more famous by the legendary Jim Corbet when he decided to pen down his trysts with them in the jungle way back in the 1940s.

Coming back to 2002, we were visiting the national park from Nainital and were at the gates by the morning for our safari ride. We didn’t go for the safari at the deathly hours though which is around 3 AM I think!

The guide there had said you will get to see this and that and blah blah in the jungle. But we were most interested in the big cat! Throughout our day long safari we saw – wild boars, elephants, countless deer, one peacock, several birds, a supposedly big snake’s nest (it was only the opening of a burrow that we saw) and some other animals. But no big cat! Such a waste.

The guide kept showing random impressions on mud as pug marks – we were totally dejected. May be it was not in our luck.

We were on our way back to Nainital. Roads in the hill are tricky – if you don’t know the way you can either bump your car on the hill or go down the bottomless pit!! We were travelling in a Maruti Van – those were popular in those days. My dad was half asleep in the front seat beside the driver, mom was looking outside her window though the glass was slid closed – it was November and cold there. The only glass that was open in the car was by my side – because I was feeling dizzy with the hill drive and wanted fresh air. Music was on in the car stereo and drifting thoughts in my teenage mind that time.

Suddenly the brakes screeched and we were all jolted back into the action and heard the driver yelling – “Dekho dekho tiger dekho!”  [look at the tiger]

In that half asleep state dad asked “Tiger, where?”

I had almost sprung up from the seat and lodged myself above the gear box to see ahead. There it was a huuuuge majestic tiger. The tail was probably as long as the body. He had climbed down the hill, was crossing the road to get down the sides. The driver had put the headlight on brightest and thus the tiger stopped on his way with so much light on its eyes. In those two seconds I remembered I should click a photo and was searching for the camera in my bag. But the tiger had other plans. He roared and took a step ahead. That roar is something I’ll never forget in life!

It was enough to scare the driver who had put the gear in reverse by that time. And then there was darkness. Darkness and silence apart from the sounds of insects. The driver had pressed so hard on the clutch in that moment of fear he forgot he had pulled his hand break earlier to marvel at the tiger! All lights were off, the car was not starting – there was a total silence for a moment.

My mom started screaming – Tina close that damn window!

Dad – There can be more tigers, I can its eyes glowing at us.

The driver was already saying his Hanuman Chalisa.

It was a risky and scary situation. It was already dark outside with a broken car and an almost angry male tiger ahead (yeah it was male because I had spotted his THING) and god knows if he had few more friends following him. If another car came from behind it could hit us and we all could be down the slope with the tiger and his friends and be their dinner.

We could see the glowing eyes turning and going down the slope. We also felt that musty smell was gone too. That’s when I realized that tigers smelt horrible!
My dad asked the driver to go and check what was wrong in the car but he was too scared to do that. Thankfully it was a van and he went at the rear of the car through our seats! Finally we figured out some wire had gotten loose which had cut all power supplies. He had managed to fix that within the car.

The driver later said this was the first time in his career of 17 years as a taxi driver in that road that he had seen a tiger. He said – “aap to bohot lucky ho, aisehi tiger dekhneko nahi milta” [you people are lucky, you don’t get to spot a tiger just like that].


Yes we were lucky to see a wild tiger and in the most unexpected way. Guess, the tiger wanted to surprise us! This is an experience three of us will not forget. 

I don’t have any photograph of that tiger, but frankly somethings are so deeply etched in your mind that you don’t even require a photo!
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April 13, 2016 8 comments
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