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What’s unethical about the Osama Raid?

by Tina Basu July 25, 2011
written by Tina Basu

Ever since the Osama raid took place I have been reading mixed views about the man who killed thousands and terrorized the whole world. Peace prayers were being held at places across India, Pakistan and god knows where all! This completely beats me. Praying for peace for the man who probably didn’t understand ABC of peace, humanity, love, human rights??? I thought it’s disgusting.

Yesterday I read (here) that his battalion of sons is lashing out against the killing of their father telling ‘it’s unethical to kill an unarmed man’! As I read it I thought what a joke! But I want to ask all these people who said it was unethical to kill Osama who was unarmed when shot dead, where were you when this very Osama killed thousands of unarmed innocent men women and children? Was it very ethical on his part to kill civilians? If you couldn’t raise the question of ethics to OBL then why raise now?
I get very inquisitive each time, I come across such things, to find out the history behind all this, so I started reading a lot on it recently. Some of the ideologies I came across made me think in which century these guys are living in? I have quoted some examples below, read them and you can decide for yourself if they are ethical, unethical or absurd.
Example 1
OBL’s first bombing attack was on December 29, 1992 at Gold Mihor Hotel in Aden where civilians were killed. It is after this incident that they came up with a justification for killing innocent civilians.

“According to a fatwa issued by Mamdouh Mahmud Salim, the killing of someone standing near the enemy is justified because any innocent bystander will find their proper reward in death, going to Jannah (Paradise) if they were good Muslims and to Jahannam (hell) if they were bad or non-believers.”  – testimony of Jamal al-Fadl, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Osama_bin_Laden#cite_note-84
Now what sense does this make? If I am standing near my enemy my murder by someone else is justified?? How?? If one is not a believer or a follower of a particular religion that person becomes bad? Why?? Wasn’t this unethical??

Example 2

OBL and his groups had dynamited 6th century standing Buddha statues carved into the side of a cliff in the Bamyan valley in the Hazarajat region of central Afghanistan. This was widely covered in the media. Some quotes on this incident.

“It was the spring of 2001. I was in Afghanistan’s Panjshir Valley, together with my brother Ahmad Shah Massoud, the leader of the Afghan resistance against the Taliban, and Bismillah Khan, who currently serves as Afghanistan’s interior minister. One of our commanders, Commandant Momin, wanted us to see 30 Taliban fighters who had been taken hostage after a gun battle. My brother agreed to meet them.

I remember that his first question concerned the centuries-old Buddha statues that were dynamited by the Taliban in March of that year, shortly before our encounter. Two Taliban combatants from Kandahar confidently responded that worshiping anything outside of Islam was unacceptable and that therefore these statues had to be destroyed. My brother looked at them and said, this time in Pashto, ‘There are still many sun- worshippers in this country. Will you also try to get rid of the sun and drop darkness over the Earth?'”” – Yahya Massoud (July 2010). [Afghans can win this war, Foreign Policy].

I swear by the sentence Will you also try to get rid of the sun and drop darkness over the Earth? They have already brought enough darkness in people’s minds… darkness of illiteracy, darkness of inhumanism, darkness of violation of human rights, darkness of extremism, darkness of terror. Wasn’t it unethical to destroy a world heritage? Will they do the same to the pyramids in Egypt because the pharaohs worshiped Ra (the ancient Egyptian Sun God)?

Example 3

Under Taliban rule rights of women were nonexistent in Afghanistan. God only knows how much they must have suffered under these extremists.
From the age of eight, women were not allowed to be in direct contact with men, other than a close blood relative, husband, or in-law ,they were not allowed to appear in the streets without a blood relative and without wearing a Burqa. Women were not allowed education, right to work, and even right to medical attention as male doctors were not allowed to treat women and females couldn’t practice. Ban was imposed on wearing high-heeled shoes as no man should hear a woman’s footsteps lest it excite him! [How disgusting, put cotton balls in your ears if you don’t want to get excited, pervert]. Women could not speak loudly in public as no stranger should hear a woman’s voice. All ground and first floor residential windows had to be painted over or screened to prevent women being visible from the street. And when any one violated any of the above they were flogged, whipped, tortured, gang raped or killed.  You can read more on http://www.rawa.org/rules.htm
The extremists stated their aim was to create

“Secure environments where the chasteness and dignity of women may once again be sacrosanct” – Nancy Hatch Dupree. ‘Afghan Women under the Taliban’ in William Maley (2001)
 
 Dignity of woman? Do they even understand the meaning of the word dignity? Abusing a woman, taking away all her rights, denying her medical help forget about anything else.. Does this count as making the dignity of women sacrosanct? [http://www.rawa.org/women.php]


In one of the most horrifying incidents, the Talibans publically executed a woman ( a mother of seven children) in a soccer field where they invited common people in masses. Zarmeena’s story is not unknown today because of youtube and different other websites.  But it’s due to a brave move by some brave women workers of RAWA that today the world know and has seen images of this barbaric act. Zarmeena had beaten her husband to death after being unable to bear any more torture and abuse by him. She was arrested and kept in prison for 11/2  years. But the extremists wanted to keep people terrorized so they decided for a public execution of a helpless woman.  

“Several minutes before the execution, her husband’s family announced to the Taliban that they forgave Zarmeena. But the Taliban said that it was impossible to stop the execution because they had already announced it to thousands of people. Islamic law allows the family to forgive the killer but the Taliban did not pay any attention to the law.” RAWA reporter, With All Our Strength by Anne E Brodsky 2003
This is the book which I am currently reading and getting to know more and more how women in Afghanistan have been denied all rights and left in a condition where survival is next to impossible. It’s sickening to read that a girl’s thumb was amputated for wearing nail polish! Someone’s leg broken because her heel was accidentally visible under the long burqua! Isn’t it unethical, inhuman??
Coming back to my initial question, if these people (OBL’s family) didn’t raise questions of ethics at those times why are they raising the question now? What did they want, US to arrest him and give him a fair trial! And again some other planes would have been hijacked, thousands would have been killed to release that man before that trial. I believe what you have done to others you will get it back and he too got it back.

Photo courtesy: http://shafali.wordpress.com/2011/05/02/caricature-caricature-drawing-sketch-terrorist-osama-bin-laden-al-qaeda-killed-shot-dead-details-of-operation-in-abbottabad-pakistan/

There’s some problem happening in the blog today, formatting is changing on its own.. can’t do much about it…regret about the weird formatting 🙁

July 25, 2011 4 comments
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Pain Pain go Away

by Tina Basu July 1, 2011
written by Tina Basu
In the last two weeks I saw myself handicapped, dependant, confined to bed, and bored to hell. I suffered a bad back problem which almost left me crippled for some time when I could neither walk nor sit. That’s the reason for fewer posts in June. For a second on that fateful Sunday morning I thought my back and right leg had become paralyzed! I know I think too much at times…
All the doctor said I could do was lye straight and watch the ceiling!! No TV no Laptop, no getting up, no going out, no work, no nothing…. Now I know what prisoners might feel in solitary. How can someone just spend days watching the ceiling! Anyways I couldn’t help myself much because I couldn’t even move. L
For some time now I was cribbing to my friends on how worked up I am… I think God heard me… but heard me in a wrong time in a wrong way. I did get to sleep a lot… a whole lot… and managed to read some novels too… Indro said this perhaps was the first time when I read up so much… 😀 [I don’t like reading novels that much… I am more of a newspaper or a magazine person… I always felt novels take up a lot of time to finish off.]
Then started a week of physio at the hospital… and yes I did get scared to hear about the ‘electrotherapy’.  I almost made the therapist laugh when I asked if they are going to give me electric shock and its gonna hurt like hell. I think he still thinks why do I have so many questions for him 😀
But I am so thankful to the doc and therapist for getting me upright so soon. Those electrical waves worked like magic and I am back to work and back to being normal. J Indro was too sweet, he took care of each little thing and almost got on my nerves to make sure I am lying in the positions recommended by the doc and watching the ceiling!
I just came across an irony of life, people complain for standing for a long time and I am in pain when I sit for a long time! Poor me.. And the culprit is my best friend… computer and laptop… how do I reduce using you and sitting in front of you?
July 1, 2011 1 comment
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My Bangalore is back!

by Tina Basu June 3, 2011
written by Tina Basu
When I landed in Bangalore back in 2007 the one thing I had loved about the city were light silver clouds hiding soft sun shine between them, cheerful green trees swinging in cool breeze and regular showers at 4 in the evening when I used to be back from college. This very weather had forced me to stay back and not return to the hot and sultry Kolkata (though I love my city quite a lot).
This beautiful weather of Bangalore greeted me with a cool hug when I woke up in the morning today. It almost felt like meeting someone after years. I have missed you badly ‘My kinda Bangalore’. Pollution, dirt, heat, water logging, power cut, mosquitoes had hidden you for such a long time, but yes you are back today and you are the best part of the city. You hold me back under the quilt for a little long and I am not complaining – because I absolutely love it to cuddle up under my soft quilt early in the morning. 🙂 [It reminded me of all those days when I hid under the quilt and bunked the first class in college and felt it blissful:p. But sadly I can’t do it now at work :(].
While sipping his morning tea Indro was telling me this is the perfect Bangalore weather. [He knows more about the city than me as he is here from 2005]. I think he is also in love with the city for the same reason as I am! I was even cheerful while coming to work – I didn’t need to take out my umbrella or shades (otherwise it’s almost impossible to walk under the strong sun in the morning – forget about after noon).
I am sure my parents were very happy with the news of this weather change since they will be visiting us tomorrow and can escape the scorchy Kolkata which is never in a good shape at this time of the year.
Thank you ‘My Bangalore’ for being so nice and for coming back. Thanks to all rain gods, wind gods and cloud gods (if there is any) for thinking about us and giving the Sun god some rest! 🙂

Weather was very similar to this… I don’t know why I din’t click.




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June 3, 2011 0 comments
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Grazie Readers

by Tina Basu June 2, 2011
written by Tina Basu
Dear Readers,
When I checked my blog in the morning I saw the current stats count and I went tee hee with a big broad smile.The number of visits crossed 3000, in fact, its 3011 right now :).
So I want to thank all of you who have read my little humble posts. I hope it makes sense to you – because I write on many random stuffs what ever strikes my thinktank.  
A big thank you to all those who have been kind enough to post comments and made me feel happier *blush blush*. And for those who haven’t I have added this little bee who sweetly asks for your comments if you like my posts. I would love to hear from you more :)]. Thanks to all of those who have visited from all across the continents.
Grazie.
Yours Truly
Tina Basu

June 2, 2011 0 comments
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I, Me, Myself

by Tina Basu June 1, 2011
written by Tina Basu
A tag post which I saw here, and am copying it. Only the questions & not the answers 😀

I am: Tina, a.k.a. Sarani Basu. I should have written it the other way round but I am known to people more as Tina than Sarani, moreover I am tired of the numerous weird renditions of my good Bengali name so I stick to Tina!

I think: I speak a lot which makes my friends & my husband think– ‘how can she speak so much?’

I know: If I think positive and have faith in myself I can do everything… most of the things actually (I don’t know if I can confront a cockroach, or overcome my fear of the dreaded maths!)

I want: a life where I am always happy… I like to be bright and smiley… [Oh yes I also want back my vital stats which I had when I was a regular classical dancer ]

I have: a good sense of humor, creative mind and good culinary skills (which I got to know only after I started living away from family) J

I wish: terrorism & violence never occurred.

I hate: disrespect for women, corruption, hypocrisy and oh yes drinking milk, all reptiles and cockroaches.

I miss: college days when I could bunk classes and sit in Green Benches (familiar term with all Xaverians from Kolkata), in the canteen, so wake up late bunk few classes and still maintain attendance. FYI I had 98% attendance in the first year in my Post Graduation in Bangalore!   

I fear: losing my loved ones.

I feel: I need to know more, there is never enough of knowledge, I want to know so many things.

I hear: myself talking to the ‘inner me’ often asking her questions and getting the answers.

I smell: everything that I cook. [I make sure all my recipes smell good, look good and of course taste good]

I crave: for sweets all the time. I call myself ‘sweetoholic’. Whoever is visiting me from Kol please don’t forget to bring the sweets. I become shameless when it comes to sweets and keep on asking people to get sweets because there is a huge dearth of good sweets in Bangalore!

I search: for stability and peace when I have conflicting moments in my mind. I like to be quiet than screaming in these times.

I wonder: if ever I will be able to fulfill all my wishes J

I regret: nothing. Even if I made a mistake I have only learnt from it – not to repeat it again!

I love: keeping myself, my family and my friends happy.

I ache: for people who are wronged. 

I care: about myself not hurting anyone in anyway

I always:  think positive and keep my mind strong

I am not: the one who can be selfish, rude or cruel. 

I believe: Past is past, future is future, present is the gift that you should always cherish. 

I dance: because it’s my passion. I dance from Kathak, to Jive. [ occasionally, me & my friends R, V & A have danced Afro tribal when Wakka Wakka was a craze and believe me it was fun]    

I sing: only in bathroom or when I am alone. I know my limitations!

I cry: only when I am hurt badly.

I don’t always: tell everything true to parents specially, I keep myself safe from running into trouble.

I fight: in my mind. I always think I’ll say this n that and when the time comes I can say nothing L

I write: in MS-Word. Had a wonderful handwriting till college but these days I prefer digital!

I win:  people’s friendship I can start talking to anyone any time.

I lose: my patience… rarely.

I never: pretend to be perfect because I know I am not… no one is for that matter.

I confuse: my cook almost everyday when I tell him “Don’t make too many things today, but make this n that n that too and the list goes a lil long” 😀

I listen: to my parents… but it’s mostly literally… what I do after that is entirely on me 😉

I can usually be found: shuffling between my laptop & desktop in office, lazing on my favorite spot in the couch with TV/ laptop/ book, or cooking up something new in my kitchen.

I am scared: of anything which is creepy and crawly. Surprisingly I am not scared of ghosts & thieves and have enough courage to face them and I know many of my friends don’t have it 😉

I need: peace in mind to go about in life. 

I am happy about: who I am.

Photo credit goes to creators of Photoshop – making life easy

June 1, 2011 2 comments
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

by Tina Basu May 25, 2011
written by Tina Basu
When I came across this question ‘What does real beauty mean to you’ I tried thinking what came to my mind first – my mom? My lil nephew? The late Princess Di? Aishwarya? Hrithik? No these pictures didn’t flash in my mind. What I visualized was far simpler and not a common picture of a beautiful fairy like girl with a peachy spotless complexion in a baby pink dress (the usual perception of beauty which I see these days). Beauty is a complex thing today turning into a huge ever growing industry where the corporate honchos run in the rat race to make a better face cream/night cream/wrinkle cream/ spot reduction cream and don’t know what all cream! But is the pursuit of beauty completely dependent on a cream/oil/soap etc? I think otherwise.
Real beauty is the indication of something magnificent, something that draws you towards itself so that you can appreciate it. It is something which is pure to the core and powerful enough to make you be pleased about. For me the real beauty cannot be trapped inside a tub of cream or a bottle of shampoo. Real beauty is the aura which emits from something/someone through sheer happiness.
Let me not list the various beauties which He has scattered all across for us to appreciate. I am sure I’ll fall short with the names. The pristine beauty of Swiss Alps, the Himalayas, and the magical blue oceans often make us feel fresh and rejuvenated just by their sight. These lifeless and selfless mountains and oceans do not hide behind any artificial layer of makeup, touch up or makeover but still they have captivated us for centuries drawing many towards them.
The Pristine beauty of Swiss Alps
“When I admire the wonders of a sunset or the beauty of the moon, my soul expands in the worship of the creator.” – MK Gandhi

Beauty lies in the little smile on the face when the first morning sunshine falls on you. A soft sunshine that makes you feel bright and lively, the little smile on your face which is not for anyone else but only for you, for the fresh new day.

Fresh morning sunshine
The joy that emits from your face when you achieve your dream, your goals in life, opens up the real beauty in you. The little thank you that you tell yourself, the gratitude that you show others only tells about your beautiful heart – the real you.
The light within you
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. – Audrey Hepburn

Being in love perhaps is an eternal feeling. It is the feeling which makes you forget everything else and put you in a different world of romance, happiness, comfort and stability. The happiness on your face when with your love makes you beautiful. The twinkle in your eyes, the natural blush on your cheecks is enough to let your love know how beautiful you are. Very rightly some has said, “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart”, your real beauty is not confined to beauty products, or makeup, it’s you, your warm heart that makes you beautiful.
Beauty of being in love, feeling being loved
When I was trying the think what is that thing which is really beautiful, the real beauty, as I wrote above, a simple picture came in mind. And I’ll list it as the most beautiful thing is the world – a mother holding her new born for the first time. The pure feeling of love, a sacred relation that she feels towards her newborn, is perhaps something which no one else can feel. The beauty of this warm relation that starts from the time she had conceived and when she can finally give a name perhaps is the ultimate joy for her.


Beauty of a mother child relation which knows no bounds



    
It is these little natural things that He has blessed us with and has hidden our real beauty within ourselves. We don’t need something artificial to bring it out. It’s the warmth in our tender heart that hides our real beauty, one only needs to see and appreciate when that bright light is released!
This post of mine is also my entry to the ‘What does real beauty mean to you?’ contest on Indiblogger. And if you liked my post please consider voting me here and FB like my Indivine entry. You can read more on Yahoo Real Beauty.


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May 25, 2011 8 comments
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