Comments on blog posts are not merely your views about a post. Comments are way more powerful for your blog’s health than you think. When I started blogging way back in 2011 (in an earlier Blogger blog) I wasn’t very serious about reading or commenting. But over the years I have learnt the powers of reading and commenting on other blogs.

How Comments Help your Blog?

Backlinks – When you are commenting on some other blog it create backlinks to your blog which is good for your blog authority. The WordPress Comment form by default has a section for adding your website URL. But note, most of these are no follow links so you can’t expect a drastic change in traffic. But if you are a newbie blogger or your site is new this helps in indexing your page.

SEO – When you comment on blogs that follow do-follow comment policy or uses widgets like Top Commentators – you can drive traffic to your site.

Build Relationship with bloggers – Blogging is much about the community than just you writing on your blog. A blogger must step out of their silos and start build relationships and network with other bloggers. This ensures you have readers, followers, good discussion.

Now with all that said let’s come to the kind of comments you often see on your blog.

Nice post!” “Nice one!” “Good one” “That’s nice” “Happy to connect” and tons of other one liners,  or should I say, mono syllable comments are often found waiting at the moderation list. Personally speaking – these turn me off completely.

Like how we maintain certain decorum at a work gathering or at a social do, a blogger expects to maintain decorum in his/ her blog. Thus it is also the duty of others to maintain certain etiquette while commenting on other’s blogs /sites.

DO NOT Post one or two word Comments – It’s a Sin

Let’s admit it, a blogger spends enough time and effort to write a post, make graphics, do SEO tweaks and when they find a comment like ‘Happy to Connect’ or ‘Nice One’ it’s depressing and sometimes offensive. It gives an impression that the reader is commenting only because he /she wants to create a backlink or just for the heck of commenting. Do not do this on all blogs, you will earn a bad name in the blogging community.

In my case, when I get a comment like that, I don’t approve it and I never visit back that blog.

It is important that you read the post for the same reason I mentioned above. Make your comment relevant to the post. Your comment should have a few lines about the post and then may be some point to add value to it, or your experience.

The much acclaimed blogger Jaibala from My School of Thoughts says

 “I have a rule to say 3 lines about the post, or a minimum of 2. If I can’t say two lines I go back and re-read, because there cannot be nothing in the post”

Do Comment on the Post if you are joining a Link Party

Many bloggers join link parties where you link up your post – in return you get visitors, traffics, comments from our bloggers joining the link party. But do you take time to read on the post by the host of the link party? If you are not reading and commenting on that very post – you are in return upsetting a host.

Do read and comment on the very post that contains the link up. It is understood if you can’t read and comment on all the posts in the Link up, since some of them can have more than 100 link ups, but make sure you are commenting on the posts by the host and co-host (if any).

DO NOT Drop your Post Links

While commenting on a post DO NOT drop the link to your blog post. This gives an impression you are hungry for attention (read Traffic). When you drop a link of your post it is considered inorganic traffic by the bots of search engines. Too much of inorganic traffic is not good for your blog’s health. Instead, drop the URL of your site. In that way you are creating backlink yet not alerting the search bots that you are dropping a link.

Most bloggers have plugins for filtering spam comments which send all comments with huge links to the spam folder. And one might not check the spam folder at all – we all get tons of spam comments anyway. Here’s what ‘s sitting in my spam folder currently.


Note – Install CommentLuv in your site so that it can fetch the link for the latest post of the commentator. This way no one has to drop a link!

If you are commenting on a Blogger blog you can use Name a URL option and use your blog’s URL there.

Famous Blogger Corinne from Everyday Gyan says

Blog commenting is simply a matter of good manners. Don’t do what you wouldn’t do when you meet someone face to face:
1. Not listen to them – in blogging terms, not read their post.
2. Be eager to press on them your visiting card or opinion, without acknowledging theirs – in blogging, terms commenting only to link drop.
3. Make a meaningless responses to their conversation – in blogging terms, make a meaningless response like ‘Good post’ as if you’re grading an exam paper!
Be attentive, be polite and be meaningful.

Don’t Use Anchor Texts in Comments

Some people use anchor texts with HTML codes while commenting. That is in a way dropping a link. As long as you are using your name or at max your blog’s name as the anchor text it’s okay but the moment you start writing a 5 word Anchor Text it’s considered rude. It’s like you are begging for a link.

Eg. Tina Basu or Tinkling Tina Cooks as an Anchor text is okay. But writing Twinkling Tina Cooks – The Best Food Blog from India is likely to send this comment to the spam folder.

Be Compassionate

Blogging is not war and thus no one should be offensive while commenting. Do not use foul language even if you don’t like something written. Just think – would you like to get such a comment in your blog?

Constructive criticism is always better than insulting someone. So be polite in your criticism.

Read. Comment. Share

When you read a post it is expected you will comment on it – whatever you felt about it. Don’t simply read and leave a post. Let the author know if you liked it or even if you thought otherwise. Every blogger likes feedback – no question on it.

If you liked the post or you think it is relevant to your readers – share it on your social media.

Note – To ease this sharing on your blog you can install social media sharing buttons there are plenty available on the net.

Reply to Comments you get

It is a good practice to reply to the comments that you get on your own blog posts. WordPress by default notifies if someone has replied to their comment. It is always better if that reply is just not a Thank you! This is where you are building a relationship with readers.

If you are on Blogger you can revisit the blogs where you have left a comment and check for a reply.

Don’t Make it Hard to Comment on Your Blog

Everyone likes comment in their posts. Don’t make it hard for a reader to comment. Remove the multilayered captchas as much as you can. You can always moderate the comments. But going through the different windows of captchas make it difficult for a reader to comment on your blog. You can embed a Disqus or Facebook commenting system as well to make it easier.

With all that said – what is utmost importance is to enjoy reading as much as writing. I am embarking on a new journey where I blog and share with my Blog Buddies – Vikram, Kadambari, Deepali, Pooja, Aseem Geethica  & Seema. We are going to maintain the ehalth of our blogs together – reading, commenting, sharing, inspiring to write regularly, motivating each other when you face the dreaded Writer’s Block! In a nutshell we are going to watch our backs and that is why we are Expecto Patronum!

Expecto Patronum

Much like Harry, we all are conjuring up our own Patronus to watch over each other. How cool is that? We are going to share our posts with the hashtag #PatronusBuddies on Twitter and Instagram. So do watch out for us.


Not to mention, I wish best to all the Blog Buddy teams. We are all flowers of the same bouquet and together we make it look beautiful. So three cheers for the Blogging Community! *Takes out the invisible wand and  says aloud EXPECTO PATRONUM!*

I am a Blogbuddy with Blogchatter

I am taking part in the Ultimate Blogging Challenge, 31 Days of Marathon Blogging with Daily Chatter. Follow me on Twitter & Instagram to stay updated with #TinaWrites and #TinasBongConnection


33 Comments on Why you should always maintain Blog Commenting Etiquette

  1. Mayuri Nidigallu
    October 26, 2016 at 9:31 pm (2 years ago)

    #PatronusBuddies is such a cool name!
    This post was much needed. So well written , Tina.

    • tinabasu
      October 26, 2016 at 10:59 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you Mayuri for your appreciation. I quite liked the name Expecto Patronum! It’s cool,no?

    • tinabasu
      October 26, 2016 at 11:00 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you Amrita. The spams in my comment moderation compelled me to write this post. Some good they did!

  2. Anindya Sundar Basu
    October 27, 2016 at 10:28 am (2 years ago)

    Now after all this you have made it tough to comment on this post. I myself at times comment on 1 or 2 words but I know its a sin. This is a very handy write up for all newbies as well as some veterans too. Keep blogging . Hope this post gets moderated and approved

    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 10:37 am (2 years ago)

      Of course Anindya it is approved! Thank you for the appreciation too

  3. Rohan Kachalia (@rohank01)
    October 27, 2016 at 10:36 am (2 years ago)

    What a fab and detailed post, Tina! You have nailed each and every aspect of commenting. And I echo Mayuri, such a lovely name #PatronusBuddies.

    And btw, #TheMagicalPot wishes good luck to #PatronusBuddies
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    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 12:43 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank You Rohan – we are all getting magical this blogging season.

  4. Jaibala Rao
    October 27, 2016 at 10:49 am (2 years ago)

    Agree Agree Agree. One of my mantras for blogging success is Engagement Engagement Engagement, but that needs to be done right. Even I was tired of certain ‘Happy to connect’ comments. Thank you for the mention Tina <3
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    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 12:56 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you Jai, yes engagement is the biggest part of blogging – who are we writing for otherwise. Thank you for your quote too Jai.

  5. Modern Gypsy
    October 27, 2016 at 11:01 am (2 years ago)

    I love the name of your blog buddy group!! And I so agree with this post. It’s very annoying to get comments that simply say great post or nice one. I think I’ll follow your lead and start rejecting such comments on my blog.
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    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 1:58 pm (2 years ago)

      Yes, it’s better to let those comments be in moderation forever, a ‘nice’ doesn’t make any sense. Thank you Jini

  6. Chandni
    October 27, 2016 at 12:09 pm (2 years ago)

    Super post Tina !! Someone had to say that out loud and you did it. We all go through some of what you highlighted . A lot of times we make those mistakes too. Like I find it tough to reply to all my comments . And it has taken me really long to read , share , comment As a practice . But every thing you wrote is true And well done for that!!

    All the best to your blog buddy group may you all scale greater hieghts 🙂

    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 12:23 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you so much Chandni. Yes all these ‘nice’ comments drove me to write this post. All the best for your blogbuddy group as well

    • tinabasu
      October 27, 2016 at 1:59 pm (2 years ago)

      You are welcome Subha. Thanks you found the post helpful.

  7. Alok Singhal
    October 27, 2016 at 4:28 pm (2 years ago)

    Absolutely agree with you on each point. 2-word comments have always annoyed me.

    In fact, I know of a famous fashion blogger amongst us who copy-pastes the same generic comment on everybody’s blog…so terrible!
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  8. Deepa
    October 27, 2016 at 11:49 pm (2 years ago)

    Finally someone said it loud and I am glad you did it Tina. It is very important for people to understand that one word comments are not enough and sometimes won’t get approved too. All the best for your team 🙂

  9. Saumy
    October 28, 2016 at 1:32 am (2 years ago)

    Aah the most sinful comment is “happy to connect”! Even my thanku note looks far superior in front of such 2-3 word comments. Glad you wrote this post,Tina!😊

    And seriously I hate captchas too.They are as annoying as 2 word comments.

    Btw I like the name of your blogbuddy team. It’s really cool! 😊

  10. BellyBytes
    October 28, 2016 at 3:45 pm (2 years ago)

    Yet another useful, informative post from you Tina. I agree completely about comments. I too used to ignore comments till as late as the very first A to Z challenge I participated in last year . I used to wonder why no one visited my. Blog!
    And of course I’ve made some lovely friends thanks to that. And hey, this comment is more that two words 😉 . Happy Diwali to you and your loved ones. Happy feasting and happy memories
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  11. Alana
    October 28, 2016 at 4:00 pm (2 years ago)

    I didn’t know very much about this subject at all, Tina! I learned a lot (well, I learned almost everything you mentioned.) I so hate those captchas – I’ve given up commenting on some blogs because of them. It’s obvious that WordPress blogs have a lot more tools at their disposal for the anti-spam effort, alas (I use Blogger).
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  12. Sheethal
    October 28, 2016 at 5:27 pm (2 years ago)

    Much needed. Bookmarking.

  13. Shalini R
    October 28, 2016 at 5:44 pm (2 years ago)

    Oh, three cheers for Patronus Buddies. Isn’t that a cool name!
    And yup. I agree with all the points mentioned, Tina. It puts me off when someone comment on my post- “Nice!” Oh, come on! At least a line more? That is not too much to ask, right! And I generally don’t go back to visit the links if a blogger tries to deliberately put on his comment. If it’s related to my post, then yes for sure. If not. No!
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  14. Menaka Bharathi
    November 1, 2016 at 12:40 pm (2 years ago)

    Very well written Tina! true off late we see so many people giving the nice post comments. Some people don’t even read the post, they just open the site for the sake of inviting us to their blog, write very informative, wow!..and so on.
    I really find these sorts of comments offensive.
    It also turns us off to return to their blog
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  15. Preethi
    November 2, 2016 at 7:18 pm (2 years ago)

    I loved the tips you gave. I am so lazy to comment. I am a passive reader. Your post has forced me to change my habit. Thank you 🙂

  16. Kritika
    November 4, 2016 at 4:53 pm (2 years ago)

    Very interesting and relevant post.
    Motivates me to start commenting and not just think compliments – LOL!

    • tinabasu
      November 4, 2016 at 5:40 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you Kritika. Yes it’s all about the community. Spread love and get love

  17. Arnaba
    December 7, 2016 at 12:10 pm (2 years ago)

    frankly speaking i myself dont write comments and even if i do, i end up with those one liners. but now i am going to change my habit and drop a proper comment or feedback on every blog i read.
    about this blogpost, this is amazing. i mean you did point out every aspect of commenting. this detailed and compact..
    looking forward to your future tutorials. i really enjoyed reading this..
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  18. Dipika
    March 15, 2017 at 8:09 pm (2 years ago)

    I Love it Tina, as a newbie I really appreciate your informative post. Infact, it boosts my notion that;”I was not wrong in expecting happy useful and valuable feedback on my posts”. We (new bloggers) learn from posts like these…thanks for such useful insights. I still have to understand backlinks though.
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    • tinabasu
      March 16, 2017 at 1:44 pm (2 years ago)

      Thank you Deepika, yes its a community and we are always there to help and inspire

  19. Disha
    March 20, 2018 at 1:54 am (1 year ago)

    Though it is an old post, I read it today. I feel that if a reader connects with your content, he will write meaningful comment. Otherwise all other comments are just a formality. In place of writing a two-word comment, its better to not comment on the post at all. Your post serves as a refresher course. 🙂


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